The problem of course being the fact that I don’t want the kind of sex that I can pick up in any bar in Los Angeles. I just wish it was easier. Sifting through emails on sites like collarme.com is exhausting and has yet to prove its value. I’ve known people that really have had […]

We all know that if you “aren’t sure” of whether or not you’ve ever had an orgasm then you’ve never had one. They’re pretty unmistakable. This is pretty much only an issue for women. Teenage girls, really. It was never an issue for me. The first time I had sex I did not have an […]

I guess I felt a little defensive. Someone said I wasn’t kinky enough, and I decided to out myself to an entire party full of people. Naturally, booze was involved. I just didn’t think me not wanting to allow the German woman watch me pee made me all that straight laced. I mean, really. It’s […]

I’ve had a little difficulty deciding whether to first explain what I mean by the word “submissive” as a label I’ve applied to myself (sexually) or to first explain a little about what I get out of it. I worry that if I talk of the act of submission without explaining the benefits (for me) […]

Here we go! Now, if your stopping by from my other site it’s possible that you are just peeking out of curiosity. What does she mean by “kinky”? What is “BDSM”? What the hell is that bitch talking about? Quick lesson on sexy jargon: BDSM: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism. Bondage: Restraining someone either with rope, […]

Why does our sexuality have to be such a deep, dark secret? Over there, at my other blog, I have talked a little bit about my own sexual preferences. At first it was passing mentions of things like, “oh, baby, I like the way you tie me up.” Which seemed to go over fine. But […]